{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Bethy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry, Hon. At this point, though, you need to think of you because his care is under the supervision of others... as he wanted it.
Try to resolve the most painful of the issues if you can. Those unresolved issues is what caused my to literally loose my mind when my mom passed. Everything came crashing down on me.
You and I can talk more about this in private. Be sure that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you, Hon!
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.