Welcome Lightningstruck,

I wish I could tell you that you will feel better tomorrow but the truth is--you won't. Sorry to be so blunt but on the positive side, eventually you will get better.

As for your "flings", the only thing I can plead on that is PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!! They are not healthy for you to do-emotionally or physically. They are just a band-aid over your open wound and unless you take of that wound it may leave a scar. Rely on friend and family to help you through the lonely times. I have been through a divorce and trust me family is awesome to boost your confidence. You are more than welcome to rely on all of us as your online friends. Everyone here is so caring and wonderful, I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say if you need us we will be here.

I hope I helped a little bit. Just remember you are not alone in this.

{{{{lightningStruck}}}}