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I am sorry this is happening to you. dealing with the situation with your husband is hard enough without losing your best friend in the process.

What you and your husband are dealing with is something that the two of you need to work through, not you, your husband, your best friend and her husband. I dont know why your decision weighs so heavily on her decision to remain your friend.

I agree with Sept. It is a very difficult thing your dealing with and it takes much courage to face it head. After 14 years of marriage and 2 children, I beleive that there are definitly things to be talked about.

I support you, we support you, so please keep posting as often as needed.

BTW, Welcome to PC. Nice to meet you.