welcome! i'm so sorry that friend and her husband have treated you this way. it's not right or fair. they owe you more of an explanation because that one simply doesn't make sense. i'm sorry.

i wish you well, and it sounds like you're taking wonderful care of yourself.

i wonder what these "fair weather" friends would do in your same position. it seems like they're standing on some high ground. i hope they don't fall off the side and experience something similar themselves. some ppl are so judgmental until they've walked in the other shoes. i feel sorry for them.

good luck! keep us informed?

kd