I am 28 years old and by now you would think that I would have learned not to take her word! I am so frustrated with my mother that I could scream!!!! She is sooooo selfish, or course this is not something i have just found out. I have known it for a long time. It is just that I am having some major issues with her right now and it is becomeing more and more prominent that she is only out for herself.

She doesnt have anything to do with my children, but let her friends ask to watch their kids and she is all over it!

This past weekend she had a pool party and invited the family...... with the exception of her three kids and their families! SO my brother and his kids and me and my family felt that we were very unimportant!

I am not sure why this bothers me so much! She is still married to the man who molested me for more than 8 years........
we were supposed to go get a haircut together today but well she called in sick to work. When i called her at home to see if she was still going..... no answer!
The lady needed to know if we were coming and I was so mad that I just cancelled both appointments!!!
If i go without her she will throw a fit!

I know that she has her own issues that she has to deal with, but why does she have to push me away?
(She was physically abused by an alcoholic mother.)

Any suggestions, how do i stop setting my self up for disappointment?