If your name is on the house only, I would get all his crap together, and it would be in the road. He's a pig. Even if you are moving kick him out. Say sorry, but it's time for you to go. Unfortunately, it will take a minute to get over him. I know that it's really painful, but you will get over him. When I split with my ex-husband I was going out a lot with my friends, and some family members. I even started dating other guys at the time. I had no feelings for them, but I needed some kind of distraction. If your really stressed, a workout is good to do. I did that alot. I have got to say that your handling this really well. I probably would have snatched the phone right out of his hand, and hung up the phone, and maybe smacked him in the face. I really think that you need to get him out of the house. I'm just wondering was he good to you when the two of you were together? I just think he is so, so heartless. Don't feel bad about kicking him out either. He started all this. If he tells you he's not going, this is what you do. Go into his room start grabbing all his stuff and out it goes. When he did that, that took the cake. My ex cheated on me. One time I went to grab some things at the store. Well anyways when I walked in the door, I heard him tell this other woman that he loved her. I was so outraged, I started picking up whatever, and throwing it at him. He was out that night. When people are cheating you have got to get tough with them even though it hurts. If you don't then they are just going to continue doing what they're doing. You can go ahead and email me. We can talk. You need someone to talk to, a breakup is really hard.