I do go to therapy. I have been going my whole life for different things. My husband has agreed to go with me to one of my sessions, my shrink wants to see what the whole issue is about. And it isn't that I am not totally happy. We have only been married 13 months, and in that time we also had a baby. So a lot of things have gone on. He is not mean to me. He does talk to me, he doesn't go out or stay out. I have been happier in life yes. But I am not one to just give up. Not my style. I feel what is going on is both of our faults. It takes two to make a relationship work. And it does not help that I too distance my self from him time to time. It is really complicated. But I do really thank you for your replies, it is nice to know someone out there cares.