For five months now I have watched my new boyfriend do "nothing." He says he is going to look for work and does not, he says he is going to do something and he doesn't. This has been going on for almost half a year. I am supporting him both financially and emotionally. I have lost trust in him because he just does not follow through with anything. I cannot take anymore of this. I am breaking up with him tomorrow. What causes a person to be a total flake?