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Eljay

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You said about your Mom: "she is very perfectionistic...she cares a lot about what other people think..."
You have said about yourself: ...I started becoming obsessed,...I can't stand mirrors...my face feels detached from my body and I suffer a lot form agoraphobia...
There does seems to be some correlation here. What have you said to your therapist? Are you making progress?
Keep posting and reading.
.Hunny