I'm not threatened by women who are "sexy." I can be sexy and attractive even at my age. Validation is receiving feedback from inquiries...not receiving silence or resentment rather than open, honest discussion. Gosh, the fella I posted about was unemployed, babysitting a 4 year old for no pay!!! I still liked him immediately, and offered to pay for at least my share of expenses when we went out! If anything, I was over-accommodating, which, unfortunately, seems to be my nature! In surveying my history with men, it seems the hard-assed *****, gold digger, sexual tease is more successful than I ever hoped to be!
Seeker