right well i've not got much self-confidence and i'm rubbish at talking to girls unless i'm a bit drunk. My problem, even when i've overcome all that, is when to tell them about my mentalness? I know first date is a no no, but i never seem to find the right time - its not something you can just drop into a conversation is it? Also if i'm having a bad day, i feel silly saying "I can't come out because i'm scared of crowds today", so i end up lying.
Like i said, i'm rubbish with girls so any tips would be good!

thanks!

mildred