Thread: I am so stupid.
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Old Sep 29, 2009, 05:16 PM
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You know, you guys asked me "what's your purpose?"

I've never given that any thought before.

He and I worked together and that's how we met. We were in a very different field of work. It was kind of like when you are a police officer, or a soldier, or a firefighter, or something where you share a unique experience that few people experience and it was important work. When we divorced, it was way after I no longer worked there and the reasons had nothing to do with the job anymore. They were simply marriage reasons.

But, like soldiers or police officers or firefighters, we shared something that bonded us and something that we both feel very strongly about. Perhaps thats the reason we still correspond. I think I also know why I freaked out this morning. No explanation needed. I feel OK now......now that I've examined the reason why I still talk to him.

What an amazing process. Thank you all for your feedback. I don't feel stupid anymore.
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