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Originally Posted by jrae
i'm a 24-year-old, with treatment-resistant-depression, living at home. i've never had sex before, and i don't know how long i can live with this TRD. part of me wants to have sex, to experience it, enjoy it, to be a woman. but at the same time, i'm a christian. i know a guy friend that i would ask if it came to this. any advice??
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Hi, jrae.
So are you saying that not having sex and the TRD are connected?
I am 34 and have never had sex, and I'm also a Christian - I don't know that I want to wait until I'm married, but I need to trust a man before I'll have sex with him, and that hasn't happened for me yet. I'm in therapy now, dealing with some issues, and realizing that I've been hiding for many years and not putting myself out there to really even meet a special someone. I can certainly understand the desire to experience sex - part of me feels so pathetic that I'm this old and still a virgin, but part of me is glad that I've waited until I do find my Mr. Right.
So I guess I don't really have any advice, other than to not rush into it if it doesn't feel right to you, just to get it over with.
