That's what I said. I said the point of relationships is to grow together, to teach each other things and to learn together. I have grown a lot from this relationship because he makes me want to be a better person so I started finding things about myself that I didn't like and changed them. I don't know why he hasn't? Either it's too hard for him or he doesn't feel anything is wrong. He says that I make him want to be the best man in the world but I just don't see it sometimes.

We also had a talk today about me going to grad school and I told him that if he doesn't have any other interest in moving that he shouldn't. I said I don't want him following me to some random place. I have an interview with a prof about grad school this friday so we'll see how that goes but I have a feeling he is going to want to follow me there and that's not what I want. I have had guys follow me cross country when I was moving for my own education and they always ended up resenting me and the relationship ended and they ended up moving back to where they came from.