I agree with the above responders. There are things you can change about yourself, if you need to. Exercise increases physical attractiveness, as well as self esteem. Identify your good qualities. Do you know the show Family Matters on TV? Laura didn't find the ultra-talented Steve Erkle attractive, but the beautiful Myra did! Very much so. You may be very young, and It takes time to find yourself. Early life is an awkward time for many people, who find themselves well liked and attractive to others in their 30's and upward. And remember this: What people think about us has much less to do with anything about us than it does with how we make others feel about themselves! Other-centeredness, as opposed to self-centered-ness is a quality that makes anyone attractive to others. billieJ