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Does your partner…
__x__ Embarrass or make fun of you in front of your friends or family?
__x__ Put down your accomplishments or goals?
__x__ Make you feel like you are unable to make decisions?
__x__ Use intimidation or threats to gain compliance?
__x__ Tell you that you are nothing without them?
__x__ Treat you roughly - grab, push, pinch, shove or hit you?
__x__ Call, text, or email you several times a day or show up to make sure you are where you said you would be?
__x__ Use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for saying hurtful things or abusing you?
__x__ Blame you for how they feel or act?
__x__ Pressure you sexually for things you don't want to do?
__x__ Make you feel like there "is no way out" of the relationship?
__x__ Prevent you from doing things you want - like spending time with your friends or family?
__x__ Try to keep you from leaving after a fight or leave you somewhere after a fight to "teach you a lesson"?
Do you…
__x__ Sometimes feel scared of how your partner will act?
__x__ Constantly make excuses to other people for your partner's behavior?
__x__ Believe that you can help your partner change if only you changed something about yourself?
__x__ Try not to do anything that would cause conflict or make your partner angry?
__x__ Always do what your partner wants you to do instead of what you want?
__x__ Stay with your partner because you are afraid of what your partner would do if you broke-up?
Guess it is bad...
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