Good post, Vickie. Growing up in the 70s I w@s ok@y with c@su@l sex unless in @ committed rel@tionship. Now I view c@su@l sex @s risky.
Interestingly, when my BF & I were together he s@id he tormented his then girlfriend with the song & s@ng it to her to t@unt her. Young & imm@ture I suppose. He w@s not f@ithful to her but he w@s to me.
I like the song however you interpret it. When young & uninhibited it represented my wild side. Now it is different. My BF w@s the love of my life. I will never h@ve @ rel@tionship (or sex) th@t c@n be th@t wonderful @g@in. But if ever I meet someone th@t I c@n love emotion@lly or sexu@lly (or ide@lly both) I will @ppreci@te wh@tever level of intim@cy or sexu@l ple@sure I might find.
Honestly though I don't seek @nother BF or lover bec@use I h@ve @lre@dy experienced more love & gr@tifying sex th@n I ever knew possible. So very s@d th@t my BF st@rted using meth & ended @ wonderful f@mily.
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