i had a friend named mark, he invited me to stay with him and his family, i lived with him and his wife and kids, and we fell in love. he wasnt a very good parent and the kids started calling me their mommy, i had taked over the parenting. she found out and asked me to move out which i did, she knew how close i was with the kids but she said i could still see the kids. then she got a new boyfriend after her marriage disolved and i ended up stealing him for while. she forgave me after a while this time. today me and her kids went swimming with her new boyfriend jim and he started hitting on me too. i have seen him with the kids and that makes him all the more appealing. i dont want to hurt my relationship with the kids though the third time she may not forgive me. i have so many strong feelings now. he reminded me of the kids dad. i dont know what to do with hese strong feelings.