Well site buds, here I go.....the kids & I leave to visit the dreaded grandparents tomorrow afternoon (&, of course, deliver plants left behind as well).....Am I anxious?...YES! Bottom line is that I don't want to see my mother.....but the kids are innocent and they have to come first, regardless of any adult issues....It was suggested that someone else take them...but due to work schedules, that isn't possible...guys...please pray for me...I Need It....I'm on the edge as we speak just thinking about seeing "mommy dearest"....I was so enjoying my life w/out her.....but there are other needs to address and I have to deal w/it sooner or later...Mate is staying behind (he has to work and wouldn't be able to cope if he didn't have to work).....love you all....grace