excuse me? Your are such a major person at psychcentral! A few of your posts have been geared to help people, and you DEFINITELY aren't dumb. We love you very much, and PLEASE take care of yourself. PM me if you want to talk. I'm sorry you are feeling crappy. Here are some parting hugs:

((((((((((((((((((((((((((Miss_A))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

-Carolyn.