I love my husband, but lately he's tiring me out! I'm always the one making the decissions. When we eat, what we eat, when we need to stop at the store, what do we need, what should we do on the weekend etc. etc. Any time I ask his opinion, he says he doesn't know or he says "yes and no" - What the hell does that mean!? I'm always making the schedule for the 2 of us. He even asks me what I have planned for my birthday!? He doesn't speak to his friends (the 1 or 2 he might have), not even his own family! He has 4 siblings, he only speaks to his mother and son. I'm the one who has to go out and make friends, and then he just tags along when I go and see my firends - mostly single girls.

He has no interests, no hobbies! Not even music! I try to listen to my music , but he doesn't like it, so I need to turn it off. I ask him what he wants to listen to, and he doesn't know. !!!

All he does is watch TV, everyday all evening when we get home from work. I can't talk to him when he's watching, I need to ask him before hand so he can pause! Even if it's the intralude of So You Think You Can Dance!!!! THE INTRALUDE! Is that soooo important?!

He also constatnly phones/emails me at work to review his work, editting/spelling etc. I'm sick of it! He never says thanks, only "Oh, that's what I thought" Like as if he already knew how to write and spell correctly.

If I ask him to do something, like checking the mouse traps in the attic, he doesn't have time! He'll do it on the weekend... but he doesn't do it on the weekend either! "Dirty" chores like that is typically the mans job, no? And why is he out of time?! TV must be taking up all his time.

I work full-time, go to school part-time, and go to aerobics twice a week in the evening. He just works full-time. When I'm not home, he can't even bring the dog for a walk! UGH!

Enough of my ranting... is this what it's going to be like? It seems like typical wife naggin about their husbands thing...

PS - we've lived together for 9 years, married for 4. It wasn't like this at the start, we'd go out for walks together, workout together, go the the mall/movies.

I need support. Thanks.