Wow! First gut reaction...perhaps he is suffering from depression himself? Why you ask? In the beginning of your post you talked about him having trouble making decisions, then about him not being as outgoing as he use to be, you mentioned him watching a lot of tv which is isolating, not having the motivation to do the things he use to enjoy could also be a sign. You did not mention his eating and sleeping patterns...if they have changed. In any case, maybe he should talk to his doctor to see? I know this is really hard on you and i can see your frustration and understand you feeling like that. I am not good at the support stuff but a lot of other people on here are. Just want to let you know someone is out there reading and offer what little support i can. Wish you and hubby the best!