Argh! this is the third time I am trying to get this written. For some reason or other I keep losing it. So here is a shorten version, it is not all prosey like my last too.

What you are going through is normal. I went through the same thing with my husband and all of the women I knew from Co-op preschool said they went through the same thing when they had their babies. Give yourself time and understanding. You and your husband are pouring all your spiritual energy into this little needy wonderful new person. It is hard to come up with the little bit more to care for one another. And Attraction, ha, don't even think about being attracted physically to one another for another 6 months to a year. It is just too exhausting caring for a wee one to pull those kinds of feelings out of the basket.

Take care,
Zen

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The path is narrow to the right madness. Be wary of trembling in the wrong places! The demons often disguise themselves as gods. And vice versa.--Sam Keen