If you care about the children at all, my advice is, I would stay away from them. You are not these childrens mother. They have a mother. Why would you intentionaly hurt her by steeling her men? Ssteeling this womens ex husband and two of her boyfriends......Hmmmmm. If I were her, I would not let you anywhere near my children. Not a very good example. Thats just MHO.