Some people find me kind, gentle, generous, a good friend etc..
Thank you to those people (here and IRL)
(even therapists aren't Gods, with their judgements, because I had an abusive therapist who was "indifferent" to me that does NOT define who I am. And because the parental units treated me worse than a stray, unwanted dog, that does NOT define who I am

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