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AAAAA really knows what she's talking about. This is going to be a tough period for you two so kind of take it easy and try not to get as upset about stuff if you can help it.
Seriously, you would be surprised how the miscommunication thing works. I started doing exactly what AAAAA suggested to you and I started verifying everything that my husband said to me. Also, I asked him to repeat back to me what I said to him. I was absolutely floored by some of the stuff he repeated back to me, things that he thought I had said to him and they were way off. It was an eye opener. I learned how emotional he was when we were arguing and how much he was hearing.
Also, I wanted to tell you, lots of people don't recognize when their depression is coming on. I don't. Sometimes my husband notices it before I do. It's subtle so don't feel bad.
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 Vickie
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