I haven't thought about it that way. I guess that makes sense because I am a very independent person and it does kind of weird me out when I come home and he is always there. I do like having my own space.

I am going to try and work through it. He has changed a lot and I know that. The hardest part is letting of the last few months where he has been insensitive and, well pretty much a jerk. Its hard to see a week of change and forget about everything else but I know that's not fair to him either.

We are working on it and I talked him into seeing a counselor with me. When I get back in town Monday we are going to make an appt. so we'll see how it goes.