Congrats and best wishes to the soon to be newlyweds! I went thru what I would call the "Redneck Wedding from H***" in December. Mother of the groom here tho - could get NO information from brides family, they did everything wrong (according to proper etiquette), the brides family had ......er........NEVER been to a CHurch wedding, bride wore WHITE while pulling her 12 month old son in a red wagon down the aisle.....I could write a BOOK ! LOL !!!! But, I lived to tell about it - and now have a gorgeous granddaughter that takes alittle of the sting of that "planning period" and "The DAY". I am glad your daughter, and soon to be son in law are mature enough to have done so much !!!! You must have done a wonderful job raising her !!!!! Sit back now, relax, and look forward to the special day !