It's odd that you would choose the term social butterfly as that was my nickname growing up. I still will go out of my way to go to partys, dinners, functions for loved ones (whether I like it or not). But just not for random people. Because I work with you, live next to you, you're my best friend's friend, whatever does not mean that I'm going to any function you put on.

Perhaps I bring some of the ... stigma upon myself. If you start working with me or happen to attend a function I'm at given by a loved one, I will do everything within my power to make you feel comfortable and at home. If I run into you around town, I will be pleasant. I guess I'm sending mixed messages.