I don't know why but I think I would be embarrassed if T came here and read my posts. I have mentioned this site to her (quite a bit, actually), and I usually tell her anything significant (although sometimes I've posted here a few weeks before I've felt like telling her something). I think I'm more afraid that my responses to other people here might not be as good as they could be, than anything else. But I don't worry too much about her reading here. I know she is very busy and probably would never have time.