A pm is a private message. If you look at the top of your screan you'll see Main Index, Chat, search and then profile and messages. If you click on profile and messages you'll see where you can send a pm or recive one. When you do recieve one you'll see a little envelope flashing to the left of Main index. If you click on that it will take you to your messages. Hope that helps. You haven't gotten one from me yet but I'll send a quickie just to show you a little of how it works.
I'm very busy right now so I dont have alot of time to write but I will send you something later today or tomorrow. I'm in Norway so the time difference is +6-9 hours from the States if that's where you are.

I can't believe someone has been in such a simular situation and at the same time I'm sad because I know you have suffered and it wasn't necessary or fair.
We'll talk soon hon.
Heidu

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it.
John Ruskin