That is the past Fuzzy and it cant hurt you anymore - hug that child - tellher she is loved and take her inside and give her a stuffy and a blanket and sit with her while she gets waarm again.

Now take the wonderful adult that sits before you - yes thats you - realise she is a kind and caring person - loved by many - held in high esteem by many - valued for her kind heart and loving nature

now let them both sit together and realise that they are both valued and loved and that we care