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i'd be upset if T had really lied but i do think talking to him would be very beneficial. you might also find that not all confrontations are so awful as those of us who are non-confrontational are wont to think. even if he did lie he may really explain why and reassure you of his care. i don't really see it as a reflection of your relationship with him but just more about him. he's human and he messes up too like all the rest. it's quite possible he would act this way regarding this particular subject with most people so it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you and him but just him.