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What I kept thinking all a long as I was reading everyones' excellent replies, was that your T should have the skills to communicate anything and everything to you without HAVING to lie. If there was something that your T needed or wanted to communicate to you, say perhaps in response to a question you asked, he should have the skills to answer the question honestly even if that requires not revealing a specific piece of information and explaining why that piece of information will not be revealed. He should have the ability and confidence to be honest and feel OK about that honesty even if that requires him to refuse to identify a confidentiality or reserve an opinion or perhaps express an opinion that might not be received in the best light because he knows that you value honesty above all else and your trust relationship depends on it.
This is just MHO.
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 Vickie
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