"I would describe myself somewhat similarly, but I guess, for whatever reason, I thought this would not happen with T--because of his honesty, his training in communication and relationships, in handling difficult situations, etc. "

Sunny - I would be in the same boat. This describes what I know of my T also and her bit about "There are no secrets here" and i have run into issues with what is "secret" and what is "confidential" and what is "boundary". the lines really get blurred at times. Why do i not get to have all the info i want (boundary) but why does she get to have other info from others on me (no secrets).

I do hope this works out for you (((((((((Sunrise)))))))))))