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Oct 05, 2009, 07:36 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 12,269
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 Good for you Myoasis - you're absolutely right you do need to think about yourself. It okay to be a giver to a point - but you have to take care of yourself in order to have the energy to give to others. I was just talking about this in another thread - how important it is for women to learn how to be assertive(not *****y) and learn how to say NO when they need to. We're taught as child to be polite, nice etc. It all comes from self confidence so that's what you need to work on. It's funny I feel more self confident that I did in my 20's so it improves with age - good news! 
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