Maymie~

Keep with your original plan. Stay away from living with her, as you've finally done for yourself a month ago.

You don't want to fall back into that trap. So don't allow that. I know that you've been struggling so hard to remove yourself from all of that, and now that you have, don't allow yourself to return to it.

Minimize yourself to the visits, as you're doing now. And try to recognize the patterns once in her company.

I know that she loves you, but she has her own issues she needs attending. It's so unfortunate that you seem to be her centerpoint for her frustrations.

Keep strong and try to remain focused on your own needs.

Shangrala