Thanks guys. Yes, i agree that AAAAA has some great advice. We each have our own bank accounts and every month he pays me some money for rent and bills. Yes, the real issue is that he still hasn't found a job, but it doesn't seem like he's been looking that much for a job lately either. I'm feeling a bit stressed because we have been spending more money in food and for electric. I have spent more than my budget. I feel like i need to help him out while he is unemployed though and so i cover more than half of the expenses. I have a steady job and he only has a fixed amount of money that he needs to save.
I called him up and ended the fight this time. I later realized that it was really stupid to get that upset over him spending a few dollars here and there at the store. It's especially unreasonable to be upset over when i have spent money on stuff i didn't really need before.
I will try to find things for him to do that will allow him to get out of the apartment more often.
Things have been working out fine the past few days, but i got a bad cold which sucks.
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