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Originally Posted by pegasus
It is unlikely that your inner child is an abuser.
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really? i'm referring to verbal and emotional abuse and i seem to have internalized it quite well. when i met her in a t session it was rather shocking but we haven't really done anything with her since. i'd still like to send her to siberia.
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Maybe she is needing something or using destructive methods in order to get your attention.
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yeah, i guess i need to think about this more. i think i have a ton of people pleasing behavior because she is trying to protect me from being shamed. i'm not sure yet what to do with that. she puts so much pressure on me though that it paralyzes me.
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Give her time, let her draw or listen to music or write or whatever it is she needs to do to feel better. You could get her to write a letter to the therapist and share it with the therapist when she gets back.
Hugs to you ((((((((( bloom3 )))))))))) 
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interesting ideas.
