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Originally Posted by chaotic13
I guess the other side of this is the more connected we are with people and the more "their" stuff, feelings, and reactions affect us the harder it is "NOT" to tell little lies or mislead these individuals.
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I really think this is the gist of it. Sometimes when you care A LOT about someone you inevitably try to protect. Protect yourself from their potential judgment of you, protect them from being hurt, protect yourself from being hurt...
I don't know what exactly happened with your therapist here, Sunrise, but maybe this time your T's "stuff" affected his behavior.
I hope that you will talk it over with him and that you are able to mend things as quickly as possible.