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Old Oct 07, 2009, 03:08 AM
wanttoheal wanttoheal is offline
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((((((((((((((Genn))))))))))))))))))) Can you maybe leave her notes letting her know you care about her and that you understand why she is doing the things she is doing but that you are safe now? She was created for a reason. While the environment is changed now, it is all she might know.

Maybe be very gentle with her. It's kind of like a wounded animal. Someone might want to help the animal but the animal tries to bite because all it knows is abuse. With caring and nurturing, the wounded animal can learn that they are safe and begin to heal.

Do you have a therapist that might help with this? Please keep us posted. We care.
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Thanks for this!
genn