All of the advice you have received so far is excellent. I particularly like what Sweetypie had to say or perhaps, the way she said it. The "disconnection" in a marriage is at the heart of being unfaithful.
I've had a very rough life, making some whopper bad decisions in my choice of men. I like to think that I've had pretty good morals with the exception of cheating on my first husband. It was at the end of our marriage. However, that was uncalled for. That was wrong. I would never do it again. To this day, I regret it. Only because I don't believe in it. It was 33 years ago.
I also tried pouring boiling water into a pitcher over the stove one day. The pan slipped and the boiling water splashed all over the top of the stove and ended up splashing onto my thighs. I won't ever pour the boiling water in that manner again, either.
We live and learn.
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Vickie
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