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Old Oct 07, 2009, 08:48 AM
melinda84 melinda84 is offline
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Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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I don't know if it's mainly my depression causing me to think so negatively at times about this relationship or there really are a lot of problems. Maybe it's a little of both. Anyway, lately things have seemed to take a turn for the worse. It seems like he doesn't want to put forth the effort to communicate how he feels to me. Yesterday, he started to wrestle with me and i wondered what brought that on so i asked him if he was bottling up any anger or resentment towards me and he just totally dodged the question by saying Okay, Dr. Phil. That really bothered me and i didn't speak to him again for the rest of the night. I feel like i'm losing him. He also stayed up pretty late last night and had the tv on pretty loud. It kept me up most of the time and he didn't seem to care. It's little things like that which make me question his feelings for me. Also, he woke me up like an hour before i had to get up this morning. He was yelling at the cat of course so i know he didn't mean to do that, but he also stole my blankets which made me really cold. I just don't know how much more of this i can take. I am starting to wonder if him moving in with me was a huge mistake. Do you know how i can get him to open up more? I'd really like to try to work this out, but he needs to make an effort to open up at least. When i try to communicate, he dodges my questions so apparently i am doing something wrong. That isn't the first time he dodged a question. He's done it at least a few times. I am feeling more and more like i want to distance myself from this relationship cuz this is depressing me. I left early for work this morning without saying goodbye and i feel like i wanna stay at work later as well just to be away.