Patricia,

I don't know you and I have never had the pleasure of talking to you...but...you seem to have touched a lot of people here. Please know that we all come here damaged..looking for understanding...but...we also support each other when we can. It's not selfish to come here asking for help when you need it.

Frequently in my posts..well..it is "the Susan show"..but that is me looking for support and maybe some guidance from those that have been where I am at that moment and lived through it. There is no shame in that...Take what you need and give back when you can...

((((Patricia))))