Yes, I think we would all feel that way, if the T was "stalking"us so=to=speak... just like, if the T knows we would be embarrassed by his/her greeting us in public, then we don't want him to (and to treat us like any other stranger in line, at the store etc.) But, I'm not holding anything back from my T... it isn't easy in one sense... but it's the best for me... I want to get through with therapy and it's going so slowly already, I sure don't wish to make it longer by holding back. It it can be shortened by his reading my stuff here, let it happen!