Yes, someone could love someone between the binary genders. 2 androgenous people, or a tomboy and a pretty boy. Willie [ex] and I were like that. I was technically the female, but we dressed alike, looked something alike, and his features were more feminine. When we went dancing in more conventional settings, drunken cowboys who approached us tended to ask HIM to dance. People asked if we were twins or siblings or husband and wife, and if so, was there a female, and which one was it? We thought it all hilarious and delightful. Perhaps people are too concerned with roles. billieJ