I agree with the above responders re cleanliness issues, esp for the uncircumsized. Otherwise, girl, you are a married woman having sexual relations with her husband, the purpose for which God reportedly created us. No reason fo feel guilty here. Itches just happen for physical reasons. They are not punishments. God doesn't punish us this way, and I doubt if he punishes us at all in this life. We do that ourselves. billieJ