Long and complex dream! Sounds like you were escaping childhood abuses, went through major life experiences as you grew up, and then found your father. You had been misunderstood all through the dream because you had not yet found your true origins. When you did, the past was destroyed, and both you and your new found family were willing to pay whatever the price to do away with the past and be reunited. Just a thought. I'm no expert. billieJ