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I can honestly say that I am the same way too. For me it steams from low self esteem and the anger/delousing that I have had growing up (especially when others have had a great life, popularity, proms, friends, dates ETC…) it sounds as if your life (relationships with family, friends, boyfriends) you have been screw and it sucks.
Do you also get paranoid and start trying to find out if he is cheating on you, and he is not giving the attention that you need, do.
Normally it’s is occurs when your having a bad day, or if you see a picture of their past life specially with their girlfriends, or how their sisters were popularly i.e. home coming queen, head cheerlead,) and you feel that it’s not fair and you hate them for that.
I myself go through it when there is a sudden change. The worst way to react is in front of his family or his friends (believe me I have done this). You just end up apologizing and feel stupid.
Another piece of advice, don’t talk it over with anyone who does not understand. They not give you the advice that you and trust me, it does not help the situation, they just think I am weird and that I need to work-out to decompress, the worst thing say, I have been there before, If they have, than they would understand, right?.
In addition, make some dumb comment about you always over reacting and that you are so dramatic”. I HATE THAT. Let me know is this helps out.
Pam
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