One thing I have seen for social anxiety is a treatment group that meets for maybe a couple of weeks. They have them in various locations around the world. It's not like an inpatient program or anything like that - more like just a conference or seminar with a small group of social anxiety sufferers where they work on social skills and being more comfortable socially. Would something like that be an option for you? They also have an e-mail support group, and a therapy program you do yourself at home with readings and audio tapes. I'll see if I can find it again.

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